something about apologies
There's been so much said about holding onto grudges being poison for both parties or for couples to never go to bed angry. Tired cliches, you know the deal. There is truth in these, of course, but over the years and in this process of mine, I've realized something that I had never considered. Or at least hadn't given the proper amount of thought. I guess that's the beauty of talking to a professional. They broadside you with realizations. Forgiveness and reconciliation should always be the objective in matters between two people who care about one another, but seeking it prematurely can lead to even worse off results in the long run.